happy father's day

I'm a day (or so) late and a dollar short on this one... literally.
BUT, I did find the perfect card.  It is currently sitting on my desk- hasn't made it into Brad's hands yet... but it is perfect.

It goes like this...
Our love is so real. It's day-to-day, down to Earth,
what-really-matters kind of love.

Because with life as crazy as it is,
filled with Lillie and work
and a million other responsibilities,
having each other is what keeps me going.

And I just feel incredibly lucky that my partner in life and love it you.
Happy Father's Day!

Pretty good, right?  Thanks a million Carlton Cards.

Well I found this little jewel about a month ago and tucked it away.  Got a card from Lillie too.  Then as Father's Day got closer and closer, I found myself pushing it out of my mind.  Putting it off- not thinking about it.  Procrastinating- which is normally outside of my vocabulary.

Every time I go to write in this perfect little card... I tear up.  I'm being selfish- I know.  But even saying the words Father's Day makes me want to throw myself on the floor and pound my fists on the ground.  I want desperately to be able to sit down and write my Dad a card and tell him all the little things I never got around to saying.  I want him to know that I appreciate him.

I've failed this year on Father's Day.  We didn't celebrate Brad.  We basically ignored the whole day- and Brad was sweetly okay with that.  I've resolved to do better next year.  And I have a dear mom who saved me by bringing a card and a book over for Brad.  She didn't know I failed in celebrating Father's Day.  Maybe she did know or suspect- I'm not sure.  But she always seems to show up at the right times, with a little treat in hand.  And this time the treat was for Brad at a much deserved time. 

So, Happy Father's day to a Dad who jumped right in and hasn't looked back.  Lillie, just remember your Dad's first diaper changing experience was also your first diaper changing experience. 


Happy Father's day to the novelty Dad who shows up a feeding therapy and takes his kids to MBA social events.  You stick out like a sore thumb.

Happy Father's day to the apple of Lillie's eye.  To the Dad who Lillie absolutely delights in.

Happy Father's day to the man I love.